Same Year, Different Story
I could write a rather grim summary of 2011, of demanding, difficult, dragging months. But there's another story, a story that's also all mine, in the Small Stones I started writing for last January's River of Stones, and kept up, to my surprise, on a new blog, for most of the ensuing year.
At 4 pm the daylight's almost gone - a layered, enclosing snail-shell of darkness.
A seagull's cry: the wide, damp street outside flickers and becomes a wide, damp, biscuit-coloured beach.
Just above our heads, the spreading trees hold up the heavy purple sky with their bare arms.
There's this crashing, storming, multifarious, chaotic, globalised, mediatised world that we find ourselves living in. Deafeningly loud interweaving stories shoot past our eyes and ears, an endless stream of the alternately tragic and trivial. No wonder we're lured to take refuge in increasingly relentless hard work and routine or, when the energy for this fails, in numb insensibility.
But there are other stories, right before our eyes:
Inside the front door, a huge sycamore leaf has come to rest: pale-brown and brittle
A mean wind slaps the house and whips a mass of dirty clouds across the sky.
She steps fast. The white canvas bag on her shoulder billows, away from her body and back - a single wing.
It's been finding these other stories, which are also the stories of my life, our lives, that has saved me, I think, in recent years, in late middle age, from despair and decay and opened up an unexpected space for the creativity that, like so many people, I had not revisited since childhood.
It began, perhaps, with learning to practice Buddhist meditation, which proved to be not – as it might at first appear - a turning inwards, but a quiet, persistent turning outwards from the rigid refusals I'd been practising since an unhappy childhood. A new, small but growing capacity to be in the moment and to trust that this moment, right here, was the only one I needed to confront – and I could.
The grass is a pale-green sea of dewy sunshine. Near the horizon, a white streak of dog.
The hazy almost-warmth of late afternoon: a dreamscape seen through a voile curtain.
in the light
Or perhaps it began with blogging, with the impulse after reading other people for a few months to have a go myself at writing. This meant looking, noticing, noting what I saw. Looking led to buying a camera, and photographing what I saw led to seeing differently, seeing smaller details, to a fuller, but quieter view.
Such a happy new hobby all this was, at its best quietly life-changing. It was also desperately frustrating and a path to renewed appreciation of why we bury ourselves in duty and effort or sink into apathy. To be attentive, to carve out space for seeing, feeling and for creativity, could feel like just another obligation, another drain on resources already spread too thin. This is where the concept I had learned from Buddhists and others of ‘practice', a modest but steady commitment and removal of choice, was helpful. And it was helpful to try and take writing also as a practice.
Liquid light pours through a window, flickers like flames across cool shadow and the open, white pages of a book.
A runner threads her way through the surge of shuffling commuters, lifts a foot and searches, vibrating with quiet energy, for a place to put it down.
The man in the green dragon suit bends over, carefully packing his groceries into a big back-pack. His stiff, bright-green tail sticks straight up.
Thus far I'd come by myself, and with much inspiration from other writers and bloggers, when I heard about the first River of Stones in January 2011. Convinced in theory of the need to be still, to look closely and to find our own words, I was too often crushed, by work, by information overload, by life in general, too often losing touch with what I knew and finding little space to try and get it back. So little space. But just one moment, one perception, one sentence a day: this surely even I could do?
Rain on the train window turns the landscape into an unfurling pointilliste fresco.
A fine and fragile
with bell-shaped rim -
like drinking from
an open flower.
In the cafe window, a small old man with skin like a dark, bruised plum and greying, wispy corn-rows sits rocking and staring out.
It has helped. It has fed into other small creative efforts. I'd like to think it has affected, just a little, the way I approach every day. I'm still doing it, on and off. I don't know how long for, but every time I do, I'm glad. It's a game, a trail. It changes, trying different forms, shorter and longer (but not too long, the longer ones, I see in retrospect, are the least focused and satisfying), winding sentences and tiny poems. Looking back across my own small river of ‘stones', I'm immensely glad of this other, quieter story of the past year.
Early morning streets
muffled in a striped blanket
of moon and mist.
His face in the rain -
a sleeping bag gives
A black dog runs
beside a bicycle -
blur of legs and spokes
Jean's small river of stones is online at
Trail Mix - small things found on the path
words: Jean Morris, UK (tasting rhubarb )
image: 'Meditative' - Rose Hunter, Mexico (YB / Fotos del Dia)
this reflection was first published in the River of Stones blog
in January 2012 as part of the guest blogger series.
another 2-sided view: Map I / Map II (#20)